Tuesday, November 25, 2025 – Training for hard
Hi Gang!
Huge congrats to everyone who ran the Holly Jolly 5K on Sunday! Kerry (3rd in AG), Erin (1st in AG), Cassidy (2nd in AG), Carolyn (1st in AG), Carol, Cheryl, Jeff (3rd in AG), Colette (awesome comeback race after a long injury), and myself (1st in AG). It was a great course with awesome vibes! In two weekends we have the Holiday 10K (originally Tannenbaum 10K), and that race officially marks the end of the 2025 racing season! And I know many of us have already mentally moved on to 2026. Just don’t forget to take a little down time between seasons – your mind and body need to recharge.
This past month has marked the peak of cross country season, with high school, university and masters racers taking on the event. Cross country is supposed to be tough. It’s always hilly, twisty, sometimes narrow, often muddy (in fact, at the university finals they added mud because they felt it wasn’t naturally muddy enough), and as it’s held in November, the weather is always unpredictable and often cold, windy, rainy, and/or snowy. These elements all make up the essence of cross country running, and are in fact the point of it. The other weekend, my daughter told me something interesting about a competitor who had won the high school provincial champs and was preparing for the club provincial champs. It was a weekend between the events, and the forecast was due to be nice on Saturday and snowy and cold on Sunday. This athlete had told her friend she wanted to wait for the cold, snowy day for her long run, so she could get used to the conditions. Her training run would probably be slower and more difficult as a result, but that was what she was seeking. Maybe unsurprisingly she went on to win the provincial champs, beating girls an age group above her. I shared this story with some other athletes I coach, who always want the practices to be at a warmer time of day, with good conditions, in a nice location, at a time that they can sleep in, to set up a well-controlled and predictable workout where they can be happy with their measurable results. But sometimes the thing we’re trying to train, is not the thing we’re training. For cross country, we should be training for things to be tough, unpredictable and uncomfortable – not necessarily reassuringly fast.
Same goes in other areas of life. Sometimes the point isn’t to get through everything as easily and as well as possible, but to build the confidence to know we can handle the tough things. And the surest way to build that confidence is to go through tough experiences. I was listening to a podcast about the brain’s fatigue system (again). They argued that you can have self-belief all you want. But there’s a difference between believing you can and knowing you can, and that’s the experience of having done it. You can’t actually convince your brain of something it hasn’t experienced. In the crucible of action, false confidence is just that – false. But the confidence that comes from really knowing you can do the hard things goes a long way. So make yourself finish that difficult book where you have to re-read every page in order to understand it. Be the person who volunteers to have the difficult conversation with someone. Choose a complex recipe with lots of steps and obscure ingredients. Go for a walk or run in the cold, dark, wind and snow. Choose hilly routes. Sit down and force your brain to figure out the math with your kids. You don’t always have to do these things, but doing them every now and then, or at least not avoiding them, gives you the knowledge and confidence that you will always be able to handle them and that you are a person who can turn towards hard things.
So yes, sometimes pick the downhill course with wind at your back (I did!) But also sometimes choose things like cross country. Nationals cross country are this weekend. My husband asked if I was worried about the weather. I told him my head was already wrapped around the fact that it was going to be 8K of hills, mud, twists and turns, and basic awfulness at the end of November. Hoping for anything to make it feel better (like a randomly sunny or warm day) was not going to help. It will feel hard. I know this. Trying to manage anything to make it feel good is not somewhere I’m going to waste my energy. I’m just going to embrace the suck (and snot and spit and sleet and mud) and get on with it. No one will care about my time or my place, really. It will just be about doing a hard thing to prove to myself I can do it. And then I’ll go back to choosing much easier things for a while.
On to tomorrow’s workout!
We’re back to hills. I think Holiday 10K’ers are still good to do hills bc we’re 2 weeks out – next week will be flat for you and the strength from hills can help in a 10K. So all together!
Let’s shorten up the sequence though but leave ourselves open to doing part or all of an extra set.
3 x short hill followed by 4 min tempo. Repeat 3-4 times.
I will come to Pottery but will be doing my own short wrkt for the weekend race.
That is all – see you in the a.m.!
xo
Seanna
